Congratulations! You have high emotional intelligence. This is good news! EQ counts for twice as much as IQ and technical skills combined in determining who will be a star performer. Your level of EQ likely has been and will be a driver of your high performance under pressure for years to come. Areas to work on: While you are doing well, don’t forget to take time out of your busy day-to-day activities to stop and reflect on what brings you the greatest meaning in your life. If we fail to do this on a regular basis, we risk becoming tranquilized by the trivial; sedated by the small details. Yes, deadlines need to be met and goals achieved. But if we are working toward goals that are not in alignment with our key values and greater purpose, we face becoming frustrated and cynical when we face pressure – losing sight of the reason we are doing ‘all of this’ in the first place!
As William James said: “I have no doubt whatsoever that most people live, whether physically, intellectually, or morally, in a very restricted circle of their potential being. They make use of a very small portion of their possible consciousness… much like a man who, out of his whole body organism, should get into the habit of using and moving only his little finger… We all have reservoirs of life to draw upon, of which we do not dream.”
Since you are already high in EQ, you are ready to move to our advanced Curriculum. In the Performing Under Pressure: The Three Conversations of Leadership program, you will learn to have the kinds of conversations that increase trust and create accountability in your relationships. In the Performing Under Pressure: Doing Your Best When it Matters Most program, you will learn the science of doing your best when it matters most.
5 ways to learn more:
- What is Emotional Intelligence?
- Buy the New York Times bestselling book: Performing Under Pressure
- Become certified to deliver our world class training content
- Discover our new Women Under Pressure initiative and download the white paper
- Download our Parenting Teens Under Pressure podcast and learn how to coach your teen when they are under pressure
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