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The
Power of Positive Thinkers |
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By
Jill Neimark (Reprint from Success Magazine) |
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Robert
Dell
should have been crushed. Two years ago, the meat-packing plant
where he worked closed on a half hours notice. "Severance?"
asks the blond, 47-year-old Dell, who is married with two children.
"I got what was in my wallet." Within weeks he had
traded in his butchers apron for a business suit. He then
applied for a sales position at Metropolitan Life. "It
never occurred to me that I didnt know how to sell,"
explains Dell, who last year joined other top sellers in the
Leaders Club at Met Life. |
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By
most standards, Dell was an average Joe. Hed been punching
time clocks for 26 years, as his father did before him. He hadnt
sold so much as a glass of lemonade when he was a kid, and when
he took the standard insurance industry certification test,
he barely passed. So how did Met Life recognize the supersalesman
in the sausage stuffer? Dell possessed one trait that made up
for everything he lacked: relentless optimism. |
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Just
before Dell lost his job, Martin Seligman, a psychologist at
the University of Pennsylvania, had convinced Met Life to launch
a highly original pilot program to hire new recruits. Managements
best predictor of success, Seligman argued, is the employees
level of optimism. Met Life was intrigued, but wondered whether
tests could really recognize and measure optimism. |
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So
Seligman sold them on his 20- minute written exam to identify
upbeat people. Met Life used it to test 15,000 recruits
many of whom failed the industry exam the first time around.
If these novice salesmen performed, the insurance carrier would
agree to expand the program. Within months, the recruits were
dramatically outselling those hired using the traditional way.
Since then, Met Life has commissioned Seligman to sift through
20,000 other applicants to identify the optimists. By next year,
Seligman estimates this new hiring practice to boost revenues
$10 million. |
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Seligman
demonstrated that people tend to "learn" helpless
and hopeless behavior after suffering a series of bad events.
Later, he discovered that if you change a pessimists outlook
on the events that befall him, you can help him become an optimist. |
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Seligmans
research shows the power of self-fulfilling prophecies. The
way a person explains events in his life, Seligman says, can
predict and determine his future. Those who believed they are
masters of their fate are more likely to succeed than those
who attribute events to forces beyond their control. Seligmans
tests contain 12 hypothetical and open-ended situations, from
the tragic to the mundane, that provide clues to the test takers
personality. For example: "Your mate walks out of the room,
slamming the door," says Seligman. "How do you explain
that? Very simply, a pessimist might say, Im unlovable,
while an optimist would think its no big deal, saying
something like, Everyone gets in bad moods."
In short, optimists see themselves in control of events, or
at least not at the mercy of events. Pessimists, like characters
in a Kafka novel, feel victimized by events and powerless to
do anything about them. Due to Seligmans work, it is now
possible to quantify whether an individual is an optimist or
a pessimist. Seligman calls this kind of attribution "explanatory
style." The test, the Seligman
Attributional Style Questionnaire (SASQ), dissects a persons
explanatory style from three directions to reveal how he/she
views events: |
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Stable.
Does a person see events as controllable? Or does he feel life
is out of his control? Take two people whose investments in
the stock market have just doubled. An optimist would call it
a smart move, a success. A pessimist would say it's just a stroke
of luck, like winning the lottery. If, on the other hand, a
stock suddenly plummets, the optimist would deem it a fluke.
To the pessimist, it could not have happened any other way. |
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Global.
The optimist feels his windfall is general proof that he's a
success in life. He may sometimes even give the event more weight
than it truly merits. But to the pessimist, it's just an isolated
case of luck. With a bad event, however, the tables turn dramatically.
Optimists dismiss each as an isolated occurrence, while for
pessimists a bad event casts a dark, depressing shadow over
their lives. |
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Internal.
Optimists shrug off the bad and internalize the good. Pessimists
attribute the good to outside forces and the bad to themselves.
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Of
course, there are times reality is so clear-cut that optimists
and pessimists will give the same response. In years when the
job market is tough, for instance, Seligman has found that both
optimists and pessimists will cite the lean market as the cause
of the hypothetical event, "You have been unsuccessful
in looking for a job." |
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At
Met Life, Bob Dell doesn't get deflated by rejection. That allows
him to push ahead with new prospects, his enthusiasm unabated.
"This week I got a 'no' from a guy I'd been working on
for three and a half months," he explains. "But I
didn't get depressed about it. The client isn't rejecting me
personally." |
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In
the next breath, Dell takes full credit for successful sales:
"I have a good, substantial client list. I got it through
prospecting, and I work very hard to maintain it. These people
would never deal with someone they had no faith in. If I sell,
it's because they're accepting me." |
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His
answers are absolutely consistent with his performance on the
SASQ, though he can barely recall the questionnaire. Dell invariably
separated himself from bad events, like rejections, but he instantly
internalizes good events as proof of his skills and diligence
and how well his life is going. |
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Seligman's
broad studies of explanatory style show the remarkable impact
optimism has on achievement and well-being. |
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Longevity.
In a retrospective study of 34 healthy Hall of Fame baseball
players who played between 1900 and 1950, optimists lived significantly
longer. |
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Good
Health. Among 99 Harvard University graduates who were also
World War II vets and have had physical examinations every five
years since graduation, the men who were optimists at 25 were
significantly healthier at 65 than the pessimists. |
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Peak
Performance. Seligman analyzed the explanatory styles of
members of several professional baseball teams and found that
optimists regularly surpassed expectations. That is, optimistic
teams built momentum, developing a kind of synergy that helped
them beat the point spreads. This makes a good case for staffing
a company with optimists. |
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Persistence.
Pessimists give up, optimists persevere. In contrast to pessimists,
Seligman found, even children who are optimists keep trying
something until they master it. And these tendencies can last
a lifetime. As adults in the work force, pessimists are twice
as likely to quit their jobs as optimists. |
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Risk
taking. Because optimists have unflagging faith in their
abilities, they're more likely to take risks. |
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"It's
not reality itself that's the problem," Seligman concludes
from his studies. "We all suffer tragic realities, but
it's how you see reality that makes the difference." We
all interpret events and develop a point of view about life,
which in turn colors the way we approach the future. This is
why optimists like Robert Dell 'stay with it' and outsell others
with a more pessimistic explanatory style. Met Life - along
with hundreds of other companies have benefited - dramatically
reducing turnover, improving performance and creating a more
resilient workforce since implementing the SASQ. The results
speak for themselves. |
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Seligman
had never intended to study optimists. Back in 1966, he developed
a novel theory of depression. People, he felt, taught themselves
to be depressed. They learned to feel helpless, out of control.
In a series of studies, Seligman and his colleagues found that
when rats were repeatedly exposed to painful and inescapable
electric shocks, they'd stop struggling to get away. They "learned"
that attempts to escape, they wouldn't even try. They would
lie there as if they were helpless. |
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For
the next 10 years, Seligman searched for insights into "learned
helplessness." He began to question why some people became
pessimists while others resisted and didn't become helpless
no matter what happened to them. That's when he started to investigate
optimists. |
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Then,
on a flight to Philadelphia in 1983, John Leslie, an ebullient
60-year-old businessman, sparked Seligman's interest in business.
"It was one of those airplane conversations," Seligman
remembers. "I told him about my studies and he said, 'Have
you ever thought of the applications to business? I'm talking
about people who think they can walk on water.' Learned hopefulness.
I'd never thought of that before." |
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Leslie
was right. Optimism does indeed have an impact on everything
from business to war. By analyzing an explanatory style, you
can help determine just how far someone's going to go. Take
President Lyndon B. Johnson. Seligman found that Johnson's decisions
during the Vietnam War were strongly foreshadowed by his explanatory
style. Seligman analyzed 10 press-conference transcripts and
found that the two made right after Johnson became president
showed he had "an average explanatory style." But
transcripts made right before the bold and controversial Gulf
and Tonkin resolution and during the period when Johnson sharply
escalated the war showed his explanatory style to be "wildly
optimistic," which correlates with high-risk behavior.
Later, in press conferences given right before his decision
not to run for president again, his style had veered toward
depression and passivity. |
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Seligman's
most controversial assertion is that explanatory style - which
is simply a belief style - can be changed. Even depressed people
can reshape their explanatory styles and learn to believe in
their own power to mold the future. In a study of clinically
depressed patients, Seligman discovered that 12 weeks of cognitive
therapy (reframing a person's approach to the world) worked
better than drugs because the change endured. "They were
less vulnerable to depression the next time something bad happened,"
explains Seligman. |
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Managers
can use a similar process to nurture an employee's optimism.
They can present alternative explanations for bad events. Their
feedback can help people understand the cause-and-effect relationship
between their efforts and results, good or bad. The message:
They are in control of events that shape their lives. Constant
reinforcement is important. How often? Anytime a manager talks
to a subordinate. The process should become second nature. |
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Consider
how the founder of cognitive therapy, Aaron Beck, helped transform
one woman's feelings of hopelessness. A first-year graduate
student came to him with a paper from another psychology class
after getting a C. She was discouraged and wanted to drop out
of school. So they sat down and thought of some other explanations
for the C. One interpretation was that she wasn't a bad student
- the class average was a C - but that she just needed to work
harder. When she called the professor, that was the explanation
he gave. |
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But
can you change your style just by changing the words you use
to explain events? That's where Seligman's theory takes the
biggest leap, and where other psychologists take issue with
him. According to Suzanne Ouellette Kobasa, a psychology professor
in the Graduate School at City University of New York, whose
studies on executive stress have been widely cited: "I
don't think it's easy for someone to make a complete personality
change. A basic shift has to occur first. You can't 'reprogram'
a person unless he wants it." |
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Indeed,
says Seligman, it's far better for managers to hire optimists
for positions with a risk of high rejection, such as sales.
They tend to perform better. Seligman discovered they outsold
pessimists by 37 percent in their first two years. For Richard
Calogero, a management consultant at Met Life, the greatest
benefit of optimism is its infectiousness. "We have a high
turnover rate in this business," he says. "So the
more optimists we have, the more pessimists we can convert.
A bright future becomes of a self-fulfilling prophecy." |
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At
a recent insurance industry convention, Seligman's tests were
the hot topic. Since then, over 50 companies have asked Met
Life for more information on them. |
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Curiously,
Seligman has never used this theory to examine his own success.
"I'm really blind to my own style. I could go back to my
teenage diaries and analyze them," he says, "but frankly,
I've locked the things up." Seligman doesn't want to know.
But then, neither does insurance salesman Dell. Today he's thinking
about just how to capture the sale that slipped through his
fingers yesterday. |
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